im such a linguistics nerd so i just started thinking of when you start talking to someone new online and you have to learn all their personal tone indicators and what :) or any other smilie actually means to them and how after a while you can tell when something is wrong just because they type something differently than normal and we all just learn and adapt to this type of communication so quickly to make these wonderful online friendships and its kind of amazing
Over three years James Mollison photographed fans outside different concerts for his project The Disciples. ”As I photographed the project I began to see how the concerts became events for people to come together with surrogate ‘families’, a chance to relive their youth or try and be part of a scene that happened before they were born.”
- The Cure
"- Love is blind.
- No, no, no, it’s worse. Love distorts things. Or even worse, love is something you’ve never asked for. The erotic was something I asked for, or even demanded of men. But this idiotic love. I felt humiliated by it and all the dishonesty that follows. The erotic is about saying yes. Love appeals to lowest instincts wrapped up in lies. How do you say yes when you mean no? And vice versa. I’m ashamed of what I became but it was beyond my control."
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I need to talk to somebody
I’ve done something I regret and now I need to vent
Alice Prin (aka Kiki de Montparnasse) in Dadaist 1924 short film, Ballet Mécanique
No poder dormir es acordarme de los abismos insondables de Sobre Héroes y Tumbas
Hmm, maybe try having a civil conversation with her about some of the things she’s doing that’s upsetting you?
a) there’s not such thing about having a civil conversation w/her about those issues
b) There’s no need for her to find out I know, the issue is not w/me, it’s with my boyfriend, her ex, and his family
c) She knows she messed up and she won’t apologize. Never.
etc etc etc
What happens if you’re no longer friends with her?
Yeah, we’re still friends and she doesn’t know i’m in this internal conflict. I don’t want to dismiss her as a friend but I really don’t need toxic people around.
"...what really matters is what you like, not what you are like... books, records, films, these things matter. Call me shallow but it's the fuckin' truth"
Venezuela - 1988
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